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Built for Nigerians who mean it

Courtship with intention, marriage with proof.

A verified space for marriage-minded Nigerians. Real identity checks, one relationship at a time, family involvement on your terms, and counselling before anyone walks away.

Demo accounts are pre-loaded on the sign-in page.

E

Emeka N.

Lagos · Engineer

92%

match

B

Babatunde A.

Ibadan · Pharmacist

84%

match

I

Ifeanyi O.

Port Harcourt · Analyst

78%

match

Why this is different from a dating app

Verified identity

NIN-backed checks, phone and email verification, and visible trust levels on every profile.

One relationship at a time

Exclusivity is enforced by the platform, not by promises. No parallel courtships.

Family in the loop

Invite parents or elders with the exact permissions you choose — view, review, or give feedback.

Counselling before goodbye

Ending a courtship needs mutual consent. If one partner disagrees, counselling comes first.

Marital status verification

Share a one-time code so anyone can confirm your declared marital status — no more hidden spouses.

Wedding, end to end

Budget, tasks, guests and vetted vendors for traditional and white weddings.

From hello to home

  1. 01

    Register & verify

    Create your account, confirm your phone and email, then complete the NIN identity check.

  2. 02

    Profile & preferences

    Tell us your values, intent and what matters — mandatory, preferred or a deal-breaker.

  3. 03

    Discover & request

    Weighted compatibility explains every match. Send one relationship request at a time.

  4. 04

    Courtship

    Shared goals, milestones, notes, calls, and your family circle alongside you.

  5. 05

    Marriage

    Plan the wedding together, then carry a verified marital status you can prove.